The Birth of Iris Aleta
Most mamas can push their babies easily through the birth canal, but midwives are always prepared for that big baby whose shoulders are a tight fit. This is the beautiful story of one of those rare babies. We hope you will hear the message: Believe in your body, listen to your heart, trust your midwife! by Morgan Vuznytsya My pregnancy was no easy one. From all-day nausea up to 26 weeks along with four viruses and surviving the NC summer with a toddler, it was quite the adventure! But knowing it was my last pregnancy I soaked up every little kick and hiccup I felt inside my belly while pondering if I was carrying a little boy or a girl. Every time I would dream of my baby, it was always a girl as her birthday approached. As a second-time mom and birth doula, I did all the things to prepare and felt good about the upcoming birth. The only tiny fear that kept rising up in the back of my mind was shoulder dystocia. One of my second trimester prenatals with one of the midwives, Belinda, turned into a long therapy session where she let me talk about all my concerns and reassured me that whether my fear was from being a doula who had experienced different birth situations or if it was my intuition, my body was capable and I was in good knowledgeable hands with the midwives. Come 34 weeks my Braxton Hicks were becoming very regular, especially with activity, and started to make me nervous. I ended up going to UNC after having them come every 3-5 minutes and last a minute with cramps when up and moving around, but thankfully I wasn’t dilated and was told just to take it easy. I did my best to ignore them and not stress over preterm labor while my mom and grandma pulled together to help out with household chores so I could lay low. By 36 weeks I was having real prodromal contractions every night and would wake at the peak of them while thinking, “nope. Not happening little one! We are birthing at the birth center!” and go back to sleep. Once we hit 37 weeks I felt so relieved! My husband and I went on a dinner date to celebrate and during our date I felt those prodromal-like contractions again (thanks oxytocin!). I … Read More