The Birth of Sebastian Fox
By Chelsea Harmon Throughout my pregnancy, I practiced hypnobirthing. I was skeptical at first, but I decided to buy a few tracks on Amazon and listened to them during naps and going to sleep at night. I didn’t feel like I prepared myself like I should have with my daughter, so I wanted to make sure I did this time around using any possible method. As soon as I felt my first contraction (they started Friday before my 41 week Monday appointment), I started practicing my breathing and stayed in tune with my body to stay relaxed. They weren’t very intense like I remembered with my daughter, but gradually increased tightening little by little as the weekend passed. I woke up the morning of my 41 week appointment feeling defeated that I didn’t already have a tiny squishy nursling in my arms. I was mentally prepared to go overdue, but never expected to make it to this appointment. We only have one car, so I had to drop my husband off at work before I could make my way to Chapel Hill. It was an hour drive to the center and wasn’t one I wanted to make again until I was having this baby. I decided to pack our things, just in case a miracle happened like going into labor on the way to my appointment, but I already knew we were absolutely not having a baby that day. I got to the hospital early for my ultrasound so I could grab a cup of coffee. As I’m checking in for my ultrasound, the front desk lady asks if I am alone or if I had someone to watch my daughter. I was alone, 41.1 weeks pregnant, and now being told I was probably not going to be allowed to have my ultrasound. I wanted to go hide in a dark corner and cry. Finally, they decide they would try as long as my daughter would sit still. As far as I knew, everything looked healthy except the fact that I had slightly elevated fluid. He didn’t go into detail about what that meant exactly, so I was pretty clueless. I texted my mom and husband and told them how it went. My mom texts back “don’t be surprised if they want to induce you.” Wait, what? After my ultrasound, I headed straight to the midwife’s office to talk about … Read More