The Birth of Oliver William
by Kendra Broo For the past few months, I have been wondering how this birth story would read. With our first son, Arlo, we had a wonderful birthing experience. Erik and I were freshly graduated students of our Bradley birthing classes, and after an easy, enjoyable pregnancy there was no reason I was planning on anything other than a smooth labor and delivery. Fortunately for all of us it was, and we were able to have a natural, out-of-hospital birth at the local birthing center. Fast forward to two years later. We found out I was pregnant with baby number two just before Arlo’s second birthday. Having had an easy, enjoyable pregnancy the first time around, I expected the same again. Much to my surprise, this one did not go as smoothly. I spent the first 14 weeks nauseated throughout most of the day, with fatigue so extreme at times I felt like I could barely care for our toddler. Just as the nausea started to subside, I came down with an awful case of the flu which kept me home and out of work for nearly three weeks. The rest of the pregnancy was filled with feelings of anxiety, heartburn, swollen ankles, and some pretty intense back and rib pain. None of which I had experienced before. Early in the third trimester I was told that this baby, we choose not to find out the gender this time, was in the OP (sunny side up) position, but not to worry since it was still early and he/she would likely turn by the time I was full term. Every appointment that followed confirmed that baby was still comfortably hanging out OP, and every birth story that I read about birthing a baby in this position talked about everything from extreme back labor to a long pushing phase to broken tailbones. I was doing all the exercises recommended to turn this baby, but nothing seemed to be working. In the last few weeks leading up to the birth, I had fully convinced myself that I would be experiencing a long, hard labor – likely with complications related to the baby’s position. The actual birth story I think really starts the day before the birth. I was 39 weeks and 4 days, nearly a week longer than I went with Arlo. I was getting anxious to meet baby and starting to worry … Read More